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Wednesday, January 30, 2013

One More Anal Sex Discussion


I’ve been surprised at how many emails I’ve gotten with comments and questions about anal sex – everything from why to how to what does it feel like.  A few guys have asked how they could get their girl to do it and even one gal asked me how she could learn to enjoy it.  Several emails were congratulatory that I finally have learned to love the act.  So this post is about what I overcame to learn to enjoy it and what I do to keep it that way.
A year ago I was adamantly opposed to anyone putting their cock up my ass as you long time readers may remember.  I had several obstacles – physical and mental - to overcome before I became “hooked on the feeling,” as that old song said.  These obstacles were:
·         Shame

·         Pain

·         Biological urges

·         The “gross” factor

·         Embarrassment
I’ll explain how I got over these, but first a bit of anatomy.  (I AM NOT AN EXPERT.  WHAT I HAVE LEARNED ARE FROM ON-LINE RESEARCH, DISCUSSIONS WITH EMERSON, WHO IS MY GYNECOLOGIST AND A LOVER, AND JUST WHAT I FEEL WHEN IN THE ACT.  AGAIN, I AM NO PROFESSIONAL.)  The part of your lower digestive tract that can be involved in anal sex are the 1st sphincter (anus, asshole), the anal canal, the rectum, the 2nd sphincter (I forgot the medical term but it keeps what’s in the colon from the rectum), and the sigmoidal colon.  I won’t go into what these things do on a routine basis – go to your anatomy books for that.  And I think we all know what an asshole is an does.  The most important part of anal sex is the anal canal and rectum.  Together, these two descend upwards inside of a person for 5 – 10 inches most of which is taken up by the rectum.  The canal is very expandable while the rectum is pretty wide to begin with.  The first inch or so of the canal is flesh colored before turning pink before it reaches the rectum.  At the back of the rectum is the 2nd sphincter which, once penetrated, opens into the sigmoidal colon which itself goes straight for a few inches before making a right and up turn for another foot or so.  So, unless you get the bright idea to stick something over two feet long up your ass, the rest of your colon isn’t involved.
So, depending on your constitution, anal sex with a man whose cock is from average to slightly average in length only the canal and rectum come into play.  It is my understanding – and the inside of my body agrees – that only the canal and first half or so of the rectum have numerous nerve endings on their surfaces, so this is where all the pleasure and pain come from.  Emerson explained the pain this way:  anytime you ask your body to do something it isn’t used to doing there will be pain.  Vaginal intercourse is painful the first few times before it becomes wonderful:  I have found anal to be the same.  Of course, whenever something bigger around goes in than has gone in before there is pain again, but I got over it.  Once past the midway point of the rectum, the nerve endings become sparse and the feeling is more one of fullness – like you have to go.  The 2nd sphincter and the sigmoidal colon also have very little sensation but again give a rather strong sense of fullness – they are designed to do this when full to let waste pass into the rectum.  (OK, too much anatomy)
Back to the obstacles. . . .
Shame  I definitely had a hang up that the asshole was something ugly and simply biological and could never be interesting or sexy.  This took a while to get over even after I first started having anal and even when I begin to find I like it.  But you can’t have anal sex with guys watching and not know that they are staring at your anus being opened and spread apart.  Getting over this was a “time heals” kind of thing.  Now, I even like to watch a cock go in my butthole and especially like to watch when it is pulled out pulling a bit of me out with it!
Pain  Yes, yes, yes, it hurt the first few times.  This is why, after trying it a few years ago with Daniel, I gave up.  It hurt.  Period.  No pleasure.  But the first time I really accepted anal (last March at Deke’s cabin) it was similar to how Harry taught me how to deepthroat – trial by fire.  Harry was my first with anal too and he packs a thick 9 inches.  I screamed and screamed but let it happen.  Then other porn studs did me.  I got over the pain and eventually the pleasure came.  My only suggestion Is to try to relax.  Inside your ass is plenty tight enough and you don’t need to tighten things even more.  Just relax and let it happen.  As I said earlier, it really wasn’t that much different than getting your pussy fucked the first few times.
Biological Urges  This goes back to that full feeling and how it affected me, which may be different from how it affects someone else.  I’m going to have to get a little anatomical here.  By biological urges I mean intense sensations of having to, well, poop.  That is what the rectum is designed to do – empty when it feels full.  I personally find it very uncomfortable – UNLESS I know I am cleaned out – that my body isn’t going to do what it feels like it wants to do.  This is the reason I ALWAYS give myself an enema if anal may happen.  The full feeling is actually very deep, arousing, and sensual when you know it is from what is going up your bum instead of what is coming down.
The “Gross” Factor  Let’s face it, a dick is one dipstick you don’t want covered in “oil” when you pull it out.  One of the reasons I shied from anal was that in the old porn movies (which were much more natural than the ones these days), if a hung guy butt fucked a gal, his dick would come out “dirty” on the end.  That remains gross to me.  If something is going up that is going to pass the 2nd sphincter, an enema to include the sigmoidal colon is an absolute must.  Like I said in the Biological Urges paragraph, I ALWAYS give myself an enema that includes flushing the lower colon.  ALWAYS.  Knowing that everything will stay clean and that I can enjoy the fullness is, to me, what makes anal something special.  It is a confidence thing.  If I’m going to have a full day and/or night of anal, I will even give myself what they call a high enema and take some prescription polypropylene, a lower dosage of the active ingredient of that awful stuff you have to drink before a colonoscopy.  (Oh, and yes, professional porn actresses give themselves enemas before anal scenes.  How else do you suppose those big porn cocks come out clean and why there is no hesitation for oral sex afterwards!)
Embarrassment  Instead of embarrassment, I should have just said farting.  A cock, especially a large one, is going to push air up your ass and the more a cock (or cocks!) go from outside your ass to inside, the more air is going up.  It has got to come out – thus, farts.  (They are usually dubbed out in porn vids, but they do occur – to some more than others.)  Since the air is coming up from the outside rather than down through miles of intestines, they don’t stink, though.  I was horrified and terribly embarrassed when I started farting back at Deke’s cabin last March, but nobody paid it any attention – they were used to it.  This may be more than you want to know, but I tend to be a farter when the cocks come out and even for some while afterwards.  Now, though, I actually find them kinda sexy (weird, yeah, I know) because they mean I’ve been getting it good.  I’m actually proud of them!  LOL!
Hopefully this answers most of your questions and will explain why I now enjoy some of the things I do.  I’ll leave with a caveat:  never, Never, NEVER put anything sharp or rough up your butt, especially if it’s going past the 2nd sphincter.  Cocks are OK but not with piercings.  Use only smooth, soft dildos.  And, for fisting, make sure all rings and bracelets are off and nails are not sharp.  And it is always best to use some lube.
Have fun!  I am!

3 comments:

  1. The educated person guide to anal sex from Marti. Thanks :-) Re: farts. After my colonoscopy a few years ago, I received a big cheer from the nursing staff when, upon waking from general anesthesia, I let a loud and long fart. I guess it meant that things went okay and I was ready to go home. It was the only time in my life anyone gave their approval of my flatulence.

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  2. LOL Ruud! Yeah, I think I farted for hours after my last colonoscopy. Just to show how people are different - after Daniel had his, the nurse told him he couldn't leave until he farted. He never did. The only time I have ever heard that man fart is in his sleep! LOL!

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  3. I think it is an age thing. I have over the past few years started farting quite a lot when I am sleeping. More sound than fury, I say. No offensive odors :-)

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